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On the outside you look fine.  Just like everyone else: you work, sleep, play -- you live your life.

But on the inside . . . 

 

Are you experiencing any of these?
  • emotional numbness

  • crying or depression

  • substance abuse

  • guilt, shame or regret

  • anger or rage

  • inability to forgive

  • low self-esteem

  • nightmares

  • trouble with intimacy

  • eating disorders

  • suicidal thoughts

  • secrecy / isolation

  • difficulty being around children

 

You are not alone . . .

the feelings you are experiencing are normal and thousands of others have experienced them too.

"In spite of the debate surrounding abortion, every day thousands of women make this choice.  Believing that somehow the abortion is 'for the best', they go ahead and deny what they intuitively feel.  They decide in haste and live out their lives in silenced agony.  I know because I did.  I also know that healing is possible -- but only if you face your decision, embrace the loss of your child, and reach out to a loving God."

Susan Stanford-Rue, Ph.D.
Psychologist and author of Will I Cry Tomorrow?

 

You can find healing through . . .

Forgiven and Set Free

Bible Study

  Group sessions led by a trained facilitator

  Study guide written by a woman who 
experienced an abortion

  Safe and confidential

  Study is also available in a one-on-one setting
with a trained counselor

  The groups and one-on-one counseling
are free of charge

 

 

Break the silence.

At 21, I gave away my virginity and I got pregnant.  Pressure from church and my strict parents sealed fear in my heart and I aborted by first child.  Soon after that, I found myself pregnant again.  Unable to decide what to do, I waited and six months into my pregnancy, I chose another abortion.  I was alone and not prepared for the consequences of a late-term abortion.
Yet, healing and closure lay ahead for me through HEART.  Now, I am able to share and remember by experiences, but I am not free of the pain.

Delane, 33

Married with a four month-old, I became pregnant.  My husband and I could not afford a new baby.  We agreed to abortion without being told the consequences and emotional scars it would leave.
Thinking I dealt with this well over the last eighteen years, I reluctantly attended the HEART group.  It truly changed my emotional well-being, helped me receive forgiveness and healing for myself and for my marriage.

Ruth, 45

My "abortion wound" was not healed.  It had to be opened, exposing the circumstances and consequences surrounding the abortions of my two children.  HEART brought me out of denial so I could take responsibility for my choice.  Not only did I receive forgiveness, but I was allowed to finally grieve my loss and be comforted.  As a result, I no longer walk in secrecy and isolation.

Alice, 31

 

"He has sent me to . . . .comfort all who mourn, to bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of gladness instead of mourning, and a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair."

Isaiah 61:2b-3a

It may have been years since your abortion.  But the sense of loss and guilt has not lessened.  When you see another woman's child, you can't help but wonder what yours might look like today.  Millions of women like yourself suffer from Post-Abortion Stress (PAS).

Eight years ago, I aborted my child not knowing what the real consequences would be until five years later.  I was introduced to HEART and my life has been changed!  I learned to receive forgiveness, forgive others, and live in grace.

Jo, 24

I realized that I had some issues surrounding the abortions I had years before.  I had ask God to forgive me, and I knew He had.  HEART allowed me to better understand my reasoning at that time in my life and to truly forgive myself and have closure.

Mary, 22

For 18 years I suffered with guilt, anguish and shame due to my three abortions.  I condemned myself, never thinking I could be forgiven let alone healed - I mean, what was that?  The effort it took to suppress the emotions of this deep secret I could bear on longer.  But how do I deal with this, where do I go and to whom?  Through HEART, I learned love, forgiveness, and freedom.

Jean, 42

 

Most suffer in silence as they try to overcome their feelings of remorse and guilt.

But you don't have to.

A special group for women provided by the
Pregnancy Care Center.

Referrals for men are available.

Call 446-2273

All services are free and confidential.

 

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